Spice It Up In The Bedroom

Missionary is overrated. All the sex position books are either too physically demanding or complex that it’s hard to concentrate. So what the next? What other “normal” kinks are there. There’s a pleura of different sexual fantasies ranging from sex furniture to fetishism, or getting aroused by something that been in physical contact with the individual, like panties, to katoptronophilia meaning you get turned on by having sex in front of the mirror.

Trying new things can seem daunting but finding something you like is worth it. Start small. Maybe change positions, try oral one day or doggy the next. For the more experienced there’s other kinks like podophilia or foot fetish. Maybe your partner is open to swinging. If feet aren’t your thing or you want to get more intimate with your partner you could try couples toys.

A recently popular toy has become couples sex furniture. This furniture is designed to comfortably enhance or aid sex positions. They have different ones ranging from fuzzy triangular pillow wedges to wall mounted swings.

Another kink that has recently become less taboo is BDSM. Spicing up your bedroom with bondage tools or furniture can be a new way to experience a different side of you. Studies show that practitioners of BDSM have less stress than non-practitioners. Bondage goes beyond handcuffs to new sensualities and sensitivities. Maybe slip on a blindfold to unleash your inner erotic animal.