Naughty Or Nice For Christmas? Try Out BDSM

You’ve been good all year, followed all the rules, flossed everyday and used a condom earning your spot on the Nice List, whoop-dee-doo. Now you’ve exhausted your patience with missionary and the Naughty List is looking more attractive. You deserve to be a little bad after being a goody-two-shoes all year. Ditch normal and dabble with something thrillingly bad something like bondage. Don’t worry bondage is not about black leather or dark dungeons it’s about restraining for erotic stimulation.

What is Bondage?

Bondage, also known as BDSM, has recently become the new escape from the monotony of daily life. It’s a way to explore inner animalistic desires while letting go of “normal” limits. Bondage is defined as consensual binding or restraining for sexual stimulation. Pretending to struggle against play restraints builds an exciting adrenaline rush that stimulates the whole body. It’s also an excellent way to enhance relationships while practicing communication with your partner. It can become a new way to explore you and your partners wants and needs.

But how do you casually bring up bondage with your partner?

You can start with something as small as a blind-fold. This easily acquired tool can be used to test the limits of your body. Being vulnerable and unaware of your surroundings stimulates adrenaline release and heightens the body’s senses. If you want to dwell a little deeper try this classic BDSM sex toy. It comes with everything you need to start exploring your inner sexuality. You could start small with a blindfold and continue exploring the limits of your senses with the fluffy wand. Work your way up to the restraints and whip, and if you really want to take it to the next level try the gag. These super fun toys can release your imagination and thrill you in ways you’ve never known before.

Establish Rules Beforehand

Safety is a must with bondage, both for your physical and mental health. Only try it with someone you know and trust with establish rules beforehand. Make sure you use a safe word and that your partner understands that it means that everything must stop.

However, you decide to get yourself on the naughty list have fun and remember to communicate and be safe.